My Lady !!

I had my “Koi No Yokan” moment…when I started knowing her. The connection I felt. Instant.

My first impression about her… the girl so simple by nature…sincere…& yes she is studious !! I started observing her…daily…the way she talks…the way she behaves…the way she carries herself…& the way she interacts with everyone around…everything so scrupulous !!

As we are around each other every day, got chance to know more n more about her…n every passing day my beliefs in her grew…strong persona…Intelligence...no drama attitude...& the immense confidence she carries made me realize her strengths…no doubt she has emotional side too but its blended to perfection…making her very different…Special…Wondrous!!

The every party I attended with her…made me realize beauty in her…the way she looks with her “Jap” eyes (wink) from her elegant specs makes me feel naughtiness of her soul. It is there…!!

Her smile…ever wonder…how does it feel like when I see it…yes I do know…how exactly it feels…

Like drop of rain…wished from the sky…everything around me becomes magical…n makes me happy without reason…n i…I can’t stop smiling entire the day…it becomes my world…and I don’t want to live without it…that feeling…aah..pure !!

So the observations…unfinished business of mine continued…her eyes constantly giving me feeling of  “yes you are Mister…I am looking at you!!”…and the whole me…felt like immersed in them…talking non-stop all the chit-chat comes to my mind…to know her more…to understand her…to get into her…n every experience worthwhile…like journey to the moon…close…close…closer…yeah…she is wonder woman…perfect just the way she is...spirited soul!!

 

Talking about her eyes…these eyes of her…make me feel my senses messed up…coz her eyes talk to me…one looks and electrifying spark energizes me...fascinating…recalled that question …”if you give me chance to become anything on earth…what would you want to become?”...the answer from me…”to be your tear drop of joy…born in your eyes…live on your cheeks and well…die on your lips…” …this…very this…!!

Her voice...when she sings...it would be like your hearing something in different way for the the first time and knowing its now your favorite song...that's how it turns out to be...every-time she sings...I literally...literally love "color" of her voice...soothing...calming...seductive...pleasure...listening to it makes me happy...soulful !!

Started realizing…I have feelings for her…question was “are they true? Attraction? Infatuation?”…and my search engine…started searching…my inner self…every brain cycle I spent on it…every direction I went…every second I spent with her to get the answer…journey of myself…finding me in her…or her in me…whatever you call…gave me answer…its “pure” and “true”…I trust her implicitly…honestly…never felt this before…that moment of realization…this girl…fills my heart…n my heart beating her name…the fire she awakens in me…never felt before…like million stars in the sky…but that one…bright one…”Sparkling Star Shines”…so precious…my heart can’t deny…I told myself…”her hair…her voice…her smile…most angelic eyes…enlightened mind…mature self…”…I Love her…everything in her…I love…!!

The song...i could recall...

Even when the sky comes falling
Even when the sun don't shine
I got faith in you and I
So put your pretty hands in mine
Even when we're down to the wire girl
Even when it's do or die
We could do it girl, simple and plain
'Cause this love is a sure thing...

She...special someone in my life...brightens my day...someone whom i look up to when i am down or happy...She is everything that makes me smile...she is the dream...which came true...the perfect...irreplaceable..."Soulmate" !!

You're beautiful all the time....but...when you smile like that....i swear my world stops...

every-time i see you smile....i am alive and below song comes in my mind...for you...

My wonder Woman...My Pillu...My sweetheart...

Make your own luck....

How many of us blame "destiny" or "Luck" when we're going through tough phases of life? We hear people say, it's bad luck. But is this "luck" thing really so harsh and irreversible?

Though few events of our life like birth, marriage or death are controlled by destiny, when it comes to hard times, opportunities, or challenges we can repeal them by our deeds.

Even when passing through the roughest period of our life, we can turn it in our favor by hard and righteous work. No good deed goes without being paid off and it does have the power of changing the fortunes.

For example if one has worked for 20 hours in a week, the employer will pay for 20 hours. Similarly if we are walking on the path of positivity with great faith in the almighty, performing our karmas, we'll be paid off. When and how? Better we leave this calculation to the most compatible one - the god himself.

Even when nothing seems obliging or working, it's better to keep trying to make something good happen rather than sitting or blaring.

When trapped from all sides in a dark cave one is not supposed to break the rock straight away. One hollows out a small hole amid rocks to let the sunshine and air come in to avoid suffocation. Then efforts are aimed at breaking free.

Human life is precious and powerful. This power is "will power". However this "will power" has to be coupled with undeterred hard work, commitment and positivism. And if you are doing so, no matter how tough stiff the problem is or how tough the time is, it will have to change as result of your "karmas" and you will rewrite your destiny/luck.

The secret lies in being vigorous and not surrendering. The secret lies in always striving to fill the gap between "what is happening" and "what you want to make happen". The secret lies not in being the victim or spectator of circumstances but in being victor of circumstances.

The secret lies in making your own luck...!!

Life in Valley...

I know of no other genus whose plants flower out-of-doors,every day of the year. I know of no other genus with one or more species coming into bloom or growth, peaking or going dormant at every season...thats Valley..Valley of flowers...the garden of lord Indra. Someone whispered valley is splashed with color as it bloomed with hundreds of kinds of flowers, taking on various shades of colors...mind sparkled and legs started walking.

Step by step, i was feeling essence of purity in my breaths and started behaving like 5 year old child...freedom..truth...innocence...aaahh...and smile. walking along the path...thought..what a thought...Where flowers bloom so does hope..yeah...hope to live..hope to conquer..hope to blossom...flowers...that's blue poppy...a flower a hope...

Khwabon Ki Dehleezein, Kadmo Ko Ab Mere Hai Choomti...
Pahle Tha Main Peechey, Ye Duniya Ab Peechey Hai Ghoomti...
am ahead of the world...heavnely beauty is infront of me...
Ab Saari Raahein Khole Baahein, Peeche Aayein Mere Manzilein...
Ab Jaoon Jahan Lage Wahan, Mere Hone Se Hain Mehfilein...

this is hope...alive hope...

Main Kya Hoon Main Kya Ye Batlaoon...
Main Vo Hoon Jo Chahoon Vo Paoon...
Main Khud Se Hi Vaade Nibhaoon...
Main Vo Hoon Jo Chahoon Vo Paoon...

floral splendours..leaves...ummm...the doors of this verdant jewel... thoughtful memorial of Miss Margarate Legge and the lines inscribed on the marble slab :"I will lift mine eyes unto the Hills from whence cometh my strength"....strength...my arms...Rocks in the valley..laying in the midest of the river...taking force of water on there shoulders...i am rocky boulders..i will...i can...thats strength...grueling one...

Am walking...across...river...full water...free flowing...pure...does it needs any proof...Purity, comes from God alone,Purity for those who believe...Purity, the heavenly kind,Purity, cleansing heart and mind.Purity, revealed in God’s Word, Purity, have you ever heard? Purity, abundance of peace...Purity, for those who believe...comes from the water...water of the pushpavati...blossoming Garden of God...Valley of flowers...

Those are the glimpses of snow clad peaks...wanna reach new heights in life...height...dont scare...don't fear...What lies within you can certainly be defined as treasure, but what are you willing to invest to find that "thing that fulfills?" Are you willing to risk? Are you willing to leap? Are you willing to try, fail, and try again? Are you willing to feel certain one day and uncertain the next, and yet keep going? Are you willing to accept your weaknesses, but not let them hold you back?...If yes, then life's greatest adventure awaits you with open arms--The Exploration of You..new height of you...

Forgot steps...look...river is walking with you..In the cherry blossom's shade there's no such thing as a stranger...stranger...i or you...water or flower...rock or snow...yes i can hear you...here in the lands of heaven...I am thinking. I am praying. For all I had done there was so much more. He looked so familiar as he ventured near. I stood up so as to greet him. Though he was a stranger I felt no fear. I knew him. Yes, I knew Him. The smile on His face made it all so clear. I was shaking. I was crying.He took my hand, said,"Relax. I am here." ...i no you..the inner voice of me...you were within me...there is sun...my god...looking bright and throwing light on me...on real me...birds whistled...its valley...as it was million years back but i am new...real me...smiling..enchanted by valley...


Note : The lines written in hindi are part of the song from "Luv aaj kal"..."Main Kya Hu.." :)

How to deal with selfish people...!!

Many times in our offices and in social activities we find selfish people. Many times we unable to say them that you cant do that favor or thing for them and you end up helping them and favoring them against your own will. This will teach you how to deal with such people and save your time and stress after that.

You should be Confident and Serious :
You have right to say "No" to anyone with whom you don't feel comfortable. You need to understand this. When you take yourself seriously and if you have confidence on yourself then it you will get power to say No to selfish people.
Example :
Suppose in office your colleague is selfish and if he wants to leave early and wants you to do his remaining work for the day and if your so much busy with your own work that's why your staying late in the night then you can imagine how much it will cost you, either you will be not able to complete your own work or you will be spending whole night in the office to finish his an your work and that too against your own will. Better to say No in this case than increasing your stress.

Selfish people always try to convince you :
Suppose after many months your taking leave and planned for holidays on beach. If any selfish person comes at you and asks you that can you help me in particular thing since your on leave. You should stand on your own plan. They will try 1000 tricks to convince you by telling you about there problems, limitations and how bad there luck is but still you have to stand by your plan and say NO. Dont feel guilty or sad because your saying no to them, feel confident about yourself that your working according to your plan and making yourself happy.You can say no to anything you want. As long as you know that sometimes, it okay to say no. You should never feel guilty for saying no when you have weighed the options and the outcome benefits everyone but you. It is not wrong to say no. So if you did nothing wrong, you have nothing to feel guilty about.

Silence :
This will work 100 percent of the time. It will also show you who your true friends really are. After you say no, say nothing. Don’t react, don’t argue, don’t say anything. It may sound mean but in this case, silence is golden. By not responding, it causes your adversary (for lack of a better word) to begin to look at you differently. At this point they are now reading you non-verbal communication, your body language to see if you are serious. By not responding, they cant take what you said the wrong way. Why? Because you didn’t say anything other then NO...

Inspirational thoughts...

Here are some best inspirational thoughts :

"I'm not telling you it is going to be easy - I'm telling you it's going to be worth it" - Art Williams

"Do not wait; the time will never be 'just right.' Start where you stand, and work with whatever tools you may have at your command, and better tools will be found as you go along." - Napoleon Hill

"Be more concerned with your character than with your reputation. Your character is what you really are while your reputation is merely what others think you are." - Dale Carnegie

"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

"Some men see things as they are and say, "Why?" I dream of things that never were and say, "Why not?" - George Bernard Shaw

"Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending." - Carl Bard

"A small trouble is like a pebble. Hold it too close to your eye and it fills the whole world and puts everything out of focus. Hold it at a proper distance and it can be examined and properly classified. Throw it at your feet and it can be seen in its true setting, just one more tiny bump on the pathway of life." - Celia Luce