Being in 20's - something...

One of my friend mailed me this one, i thought its worth to share...

It is when you stop going along with the crowd and start realizing that there are many things about yourself that you didn't know and may not like. You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now.
You start realizing that people are selfish and that, maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have ever met, and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What you don't recognize is that they are realizing that too, and aren't really cold, catty, mean or insincere, but that they are as confused as you.
You look at your job... and it is not even close to what you thought you would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a job and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom and that scares you.
Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing and find yourself judging more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your list of what is acceptable and what isn't. One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure.

You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and cling on to the past with dear life, but soon realize that the past is drifting further and further away, and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward.

You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you. Or you lie in bed and wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you're doing this because you know that you aren't a bad person. One night stands and random hook ups start to look cheap. Getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic. You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, and talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a decision.
You worry about loans, money, the future and making a life for yourself... and while winning the race would be great, right now you'd just like to be a contender!
We are in our best of times and our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out.
Author - unknown!!

"You only live once - but if you work it right, once is enough...."

The real game...love!!

Folks...This one is from my friends blog but these are the very true sentences...very true...In evryone's life this situation comes and your the best person to deal with it...

Life is the process of finding love; every person will need to find four people in their life...
For some lucky people out there, three out of the four people will be the same person, but for others, they'll just have to keep looking.

-first person is you,
-second person is the one you love the most,
-third person is the one who loves you the most
-and the fourth person is the one you spend your whole life with.

Sadly, in real life, not everybody can have these three people to be the same person. The one you love most doesn't love you. The one who loves you the most, is never the one you love and the one you spend the rest of your life with is never the one you love the most or the one who loves you the most! He/She is just the person who happens to be at the right place, at the right time.

Which person are you in other people's lives?

and also remeber following three things...in love...

- "If u hold love too lightly, it would fly... but if u hold it too tightly, then also, it would die"

- "If ur love wants to fly, let it... Only if it comes back to you, then its urs"

- "Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance in a relationship and find out that you still care for that person...!!"


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Eyes...

I gaze into twin pools of warmth

Bright and sparkling

I see something indescribable

Something I can't quite put my finger on.

Twin pool, blazing and brilliant

Making all your sweetness

And all your compassion

Crystal clear.

Twin pools shimmering and glimmering

Showing how you're

Sweet, sensitive,caring and kind

Funny athletic

cunning and friendly

Twin pools, so animated and intense

Help me to share

Your love of life,

Your life of love.

I gaze into twin pools of warmth

and I see the sweetest person

I've ever met or ever will meet

I recognize a sincere and honest person

who can never be replaced

I realize you are so special because

When I look into your eyes

I witness a miracle, I find a friend...

Leader....

This one is “Classy” article published in times which clearly defines what is leader and what he should do. This one is written by Mr. Rudy Giuliani. (Former New York Mayor).

“Under promise and over deliver”

Surround yourself with great people. Have beliefs and communicate them. Set an example. Stand up to bullies. Deal with first things first. Loyalty is the vital virtue. Prepare relentlessly. Under promise and over deliver this is the “mantra”. Don’t assume a damn thing.
Leadership does not simply happen. It can be taught, learned and developed. There are many ways to lead and ultimately you will know what techniques and approaches work best – Those you hope to lead will tell you. Much of your ability to get people to do what they have to do is going to depend on what they perceive when they look at you and listen to you.
Much of a leader’s approach must be formed from the raw material of his or her own life. Leadership does not simply happen. It can be taught, learned, developed. Read biographies of leaders you admire. That will tell you more about leadership than any other leadership book.
Leaders may possess brilliance, extraordinary vision, fate, even luck. Those help, but no one, no matter how gifted, can perform without careful preparation, thoughtful experiment and determined follow-through. Any leader is only as good as his word. People need to understand that you mean exactly what you say!!
And as Napoleon Bonaparte said….

A leader is a dealer in hope...!!

"If...

"If" - An Inspirational Poem by Rudyard Kipling

If you can keep your head when all about you are losing theirs and

blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you
but make allowances for their doubting, too.

If you can wait but not be tired of waiting,
or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
and yet don't look too good nor talk too wise,

If you can dream but not make dreams your master,
if you can think and not make thoughts your aim,
If you can meet with triumph and disaster,
and treat those two imposters just the same,

If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to broken,
and stoop and build them up with worn-out tools,

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
and risk it on one turn of pitch and toss,
and lose and start again at your beginnings
and never breathe a word about your loss,

If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
to serve your turn long after they are gone,
and to hold on when there is nothing in you
but the will that says to them "hold on,"

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
or walk with kings nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
if all men count with you but none too much,

If you can fill the unforgiving minute
with 60 seconds worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
and which is more, you'll be a man, my son...