Life in Valley...

I know of no other genus whose plants flower out-of-doors,every day of the year. I know of no other genus with one or more species coming into bloom or growth, peaking or going dormant at every season...thats Valley..Valley of flowers...the garden of lord Indra. Someone whispered valley is splashed with color as it bloomed with hundreds of kinds of flowers, taking on various shades of colors...mind sparkled and legs started walking.

Step by step, i was feeling essence of purity in my breaths and started behaving like 5 year old child...freedom..truth...innocence...aaahh...and smile. walking along the path...thought..what a thought...Where flowers bloom so does hope..yeah...hope to live..hope to conquer..hope to blossom...flowers...that's blue poppy...a flower a hope...

Khwabon Ki Dehleezein, Kadmo Ko Ab Mere Hai Choomti...
Pahle Tha Main Peechey, Ye Duniya Ab Peechey Hai Ghoomti...
am ahead of the world...heavnely beauty is infront of me...
Ab Saari Raahein Khole Baahein, Peeche Aayein Mere Manzilein...
Ab Jaoon Jahan Lage Wahan, Mere Hone Se Hain Mehfilein...

this is hope...alive hope...

Main Kya Hoon Main Kya Ye Batlaoon...
Main Vo Hoon Jo Chahoon Vo Paoon...
Main Khud Se Hi Vaade Nibhaoon...
Main Vo Hoon Jo Chahoon Vo Paoon...

floral splendours..leaves...ummm...the doors of this verdant jewel... thoughtful memorial of Miss Margarate Legge and the lines inscribed on the marble slab :"I will lift mine eyes unto the Hills from whence cometh my strength"....strength...my arms...Rocks in the valley..laying in the midest of the river...taking force of water on there shoulders...i am rocky boulders..i will...i can...thats strength...grueling one...

Am walking...across...river...full water...free flowing...pure...does it needs any proof...Purity, comes from God alone,Purity for those who believe...Purity, the heavenly kind,Purity, cleansing heart and mind.Purity, revealed in God’s Word, Purity, have you ever heard? Purity, abundance of peace...Purity, for those who believe...comes from the water...water of the pushpavati...blossoming Garden of God...Valley of flowers...

Those are the glimpses of snow clad peaks...wanna reach new heights in life...height...dont scare...don't fear...What lies within you can certainly be defined as treasure, but what are you willing to invest to find that "thing that fulfills?" Are you willing to risk? Are you willing to leap? Are you willing to try, fail, and try again? Are you willing to feel certain one day and uncertain the next, and yet keep going? Are you willing to accept your weaknesses, but not let them hold you back?...If yes, then life's greatest adventure awaits you with open arms--The Exploration of You..new height of you...

Forgot steps...look...river is walking with you..In the cherry blossom's shade there's no such thing as a stranger...stranger...i or you...water or flower...rock or snow...yes i can hear you...here in the lands of heaven...I am thinking. I am praying. For all I had done there was so much more. He looked so familiar as he ventured near. I stood up so as to greet him. Though he was a stranger I felt no fear. I knew him. Yes, I knew Him. The smile on His face made it all so clear. I was shaking. I was crying.He took my hand, said,"Relax. I am here." ...i no you..the inner voice of me...you were within me...there is sun...my god...looking bright and throwing light on me...on real me...birds whistled...its valley...as it was million years back but i am new...real me...smiling..enchanted by valley...


Note : The lines written in hindi are part of the song from "Luv aaj kal"..."Main Kya Hu.." :)

How to deal with selfish people...!!

Many times in our offices and in social activities we find selfish people. Many times we unable to say them that you cant do that favor or thing for them and you end up helping them and favoring them against your own will. This will teach you how to deal with such people and save your time and stress after that.

You should be Confident and Serious :
You have right to say "No" to anyone with whom you don't feel comfortable. You need to understand this. When you take yourself seriously and if you have confidence on yourself then it you will get power to say No to selfish people.
Example :
Suppose in office your colleague is selfish and if he wants to leave early and wants you to do his remaining work for the day and if your so much busy with your own work that's why your staying late in the night then you can imagine how much it will cost you, either you will be not able to complete your own work or you will be spending whole night in the office to finish his an your work and that too against your own will. Better to say No in this case than increasing your stress.

Selfish people always try to convince you :
Suppose after many months your taking leave and planned for holidays on beach. If any selfish person comes at you and asks you that can you help me in particular thing since your on leave. You should stand on your own plan. They will try 1000 tricks to convince you by telling you about there problems, limitations and how bad there luck is but still you have to stand by your plan and say NO. Dont feel guilty or sad because your saying no to them, feel confident about yourself that your working according to your plan and making yourself happy.You can say no to anything you want. As long as you know that sometimes, it okay to say no. You should never feel guilty for saying no when you have weighed the options and the outcome benefits everyone but you. It is not wrong to say no. So if you did nothing wrong, you have nothing to feel guilty about.

Silence :
This will work 100 percent of the time. It will also show you who your true friends really are. After you say no, say nothing. Don’t react, don’t argue, don’t say anything. It may sound mean but in this case, silence is golden. By not responding, it causes your adversary (for lack of a better word) to begin to look at you differently. At this point they are now reading you non-verbal communication, your body language to see if you are serious. By not responding, they cant take what you said the wrong way. Why? Because you didn’t say anything other then NO...